What is a family counselor and how to become one

Updated January 8, 2025
3 min read
Quoted Experts
Juleen Buser Ph.D.,
Christopher Todd Belser Ph.D.
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A family counselor is a licensed therapist who helps families to solve crises within the family unit. He/she meets with the family members individually or as a group to discuss their problems to provide treatment through various approaches. A family counselor helps resolve family problems such as emotional conflicts, mental disorders, money problems, and poor communication.

A family counselor's objective is to help the family improve their attitudes, behaviors, communication, build stronger relationships, and foster a healthy environment. A family counselor can work in hospitals, clinics, social service agencies, mental health centers, or even private practice.

Family counselors typically work 40 hours a week. However, most of them have a flexible work schedule because their schedules depend on their patients' availability.

What general advice would you give to a Family Counselor?

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Juleen Buser Ph.D.

Professor and Director, School Counseling and Coaching Programs, Rider University

Counseling Services (school counseling concentration) and an MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling (we have a CMHC concentration and a Dance Movement Therapy concentration in this program). The general advice I would give to graduates starting positions in the counseling field would be to understand the critical importance of the work of helping professionals. Counselors optimally provide a safe space for clients to discuss their fears, worries, anxieties, joys, traumas, insecurities, accomplishments, etc. This ability to be an empathic, listening, accepting presence will be even more crucial for clients in our current situation.
ScoreFamily CounselorUS Average
Salary
3.2

Avg. Salary $41,510

Avg. Salary $59,228

Stability Level
9.8

Growth Rate 14%

Growth Rate 0.3%

Diversity
3.4
Race

American Indian and Alaska Native 0.48%

Asian 4.57%

Black or African American 6.97%

Hispanic or Latino 13.94%

Unknown 5.53%

White 68.51%

Gender

female 73.67%

male 26.33%

Age - 38
Race

American Indian and Alaska Native 3.00%

Asian 7.00%

Black or African American 14.00%

Hispanic or Latino 19.00%

White 57.00%

Gender

female 47.00%

male 53.00%

Age - 38
Stress Level
9.8

Stress level is very high

7.1 - high

Complexity Level
10.0

Complexity Level is advanced

7 - challenging

Work Life Balance
6.2

Work Life balance is fair

6.4 - fair

Family Counselor career paths

Key steps to become a family counselor

  1. Explore family counselor education requirements

    Most common family counselor degrees

    Bachelor's

    55.9 %

    Master's

    32.4 %

    Associate

    6.5 %
  2. Start to develop specific family counselor skills

    Skills
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    Percentages
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    Social Work22.34%
    Community Resources12.71%
    POC7.22%
    Family Support5.15%
    Family Therapy4.66%
  3. Research family counselor duties and responsibilities

    • Conduct group check-in and co-lead group psychotherapy sessions to help clients identify and manage problems associate with psychiatric conditions.
    • Assist the clients in completing their DCF case plan, helping to remove any hindrances they may encounter.
    • Counsele and test patients who requesting confidential HIV testing services
    • Collaborate and coordinate patient care with resident/faculty physicians to provide appropriate levels of care to patients.
  4. Prepare your family counselor resume

    When your background is strong enough, you can start writing your family counselor resume.

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  5. Apply for family counselor jobs

    Now it's time to start searching for a family counselor job. Consider the tips below for a successful job search:

    1. Browse job boards for relevant postings
    2. Consult your professional network
    3. Reach out to companies you're interested in working for directly
    4. Watch out for job scams

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Average family counselor salary

The average Family Counselor salary in the United States is $41,510 per year or $20 per hour. Family counselor salaries range between $27,000 and $62,000 per year.

Average Family Counselor Salary
$41,510 Yearly
$19.96 hourly

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A zippia user wrote a review on Jan 2024
Pros

The children are always worth it.

Cons

Stressful, dangerous neighborhoods, sometimes parents are dangerous as well. Work life balance isn't good. Documentation is very time consuming and you will bring that home to finish. If your agency requires that you do your app recorded time sheets then that will prove ardously time consuming constaint that cuts right into your work/home life balance...it's terrible. Wear and tear on your car, no shows from parents upsetting children and paid mileage is horrible. Get ready to barely have a life.


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A zippia user wrote a review on Jan 2020
Pros

The (working) clients will always be the best part of this job. There are certain individuals who you can feel want to learn more about their conditions and to adopt healthier thinking patterns or lifestyles.

Cons

The insane amount of paperwork, the insurance/agency politics, the high expectations, the low amount of support. Burnout is very concerning for a profession where people in the frontline are the ones trying to make a difference. Individuals who work in this field need to have an incentive to keep pushing. I’m sorry but a kind heart and good intentions are not enough to sustain this type of career.


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A zippia user wrote a review on Apr 2019
Cons

The over documentation required by DHS that robs the quality time needed in intervention and treatment. This lopsided demand makes the term “best practices” mere bureaucratic lip service without the means to actually deliver quality hands on services.

Pros

Change agent when people are stuck and need support in the process of restoration. One on one and group processing is powerful.


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